A New Phase of Life – A Good-bye

A New Phase of Life – A Good-bye

Since today is April 1, I guess I should probably preface all this with a caveat: THIS IS NOT AN APRIL FOOL’S JOKE…

I need to say good-bye. This is a decision that was hard to reach, but one that I have been struggling with for many months.

I feel like I am in a stage of life where I need to give my family 100%. For a while,  I hoped that I would be able to continue the blog, only writing when I could or when I had the extra time…but for those of you who know me, you’ll know that I don’t do anything half-way. I either do something or I don’t. I don’t kinda give part of myself to something.

I need my heart to be with my family 100%. I feel like that’s my calling as a wife and a mother to small children. I was trying as hard as I could to be the Proverbs 31 woman and do it all…until it was pointed out to me by a loving friend that it wasn’t possible for me to do that – and that in fact, the Proverbs 31 woman had children old enough to rise and call her “blessed.” Annie (my oldest at 4 years) arises and says “Mama, what’s for breakfast?”

I don’t want my free time to be spent on social media and the blog – I want my free time playing with my kids or learning a new skill…or reading for ENJOYMENT.

I need time to be a normal person – a normal mommy (well, as normal as I can be given the craziness of myself).

I’m tired of trying to learn to harden my heart against nasty things said to me and my family – honestly, I don’t want my heart hardened. I want my heart sensitive. And there are some things that have been said to us that I will never forget (because words DO hurt).

I have so enjoyed getting to know you all these past four years. I feel like I know most of you personally – thank you for your love, your support, and your endless prayers. They mean more to me than you’ll ever know.

I will still hang around on Instagram. Barry will still use Facebook to put up older posts for you to read. But there won’t be any new content on SMC.

Don’t worry – the blog will stay up. You’ll still be able to comment and find recipes if you need them. :-) I don’t have them all printed either.

Will I be back? I don’t know. As of now, I’m leaving indefinitely.

I love you guys.

“There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens..” Ecclesiastes 3:1


High Protein: No Powder

High Protein: No Powder

Guest post by Tiffany from Don’t Waste the Crumbs.

Early in our marriage, my husband and I spent nearly three years living on as little as possible so that we could pay off our debt. The process of becoming debt free requires a lot of determination and discipline, but as many of you might know, the work doesn’t stop when the last bill is paid. Poor spending decisions are a hard habit to break and if we’re not careful, we’ll end up right where we started in the first place!

That’s exactly where I found myself a couple years ago when I started an “official” exercise program that came with an “official” nutrition program. Ordinarily I’d just eat what we normally eat – wholesome, real foods – but I really wanted to give this program 110% and see the amazing results that everyone else was seeing, so I wanted to follow their diet plans too.

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A Letter to My Eventual Daughter in Law

A Letter to My Eventual Daughter in Law

If you missed last week, when I shared a letter to my eventual son in law, you may want to go back and have a look at that letter to give you an idea of why I’m bothering to write these letters in the first place. To sum it up: I have hopes and dreams for my kids and I want the person each of them ends up marrying to know a little about what my expectations are. Even though I only have about 11 years of marriage under my belt and a little less than five as a parent, I want to capture my thoughts now and share the wisdom I can offer today because I know at least a few of you reading this right now are about to “give away” your son or daughter and could sure use some input.

You’ll probably notice a lot of similarity in the two letters – that is intentional. I want my kids to know my expectations are high for both of them and similar for both of them. The letter to my eventual son-in-law was tough. I’d bet you this one won’t be any easier. Here we go…

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Using a Nutrimill: The Video

Using a Nutrimill: The Video

You’ve been asking for the longest time for me to do a video showing you how my grain mill works – so here it is! I hope you enjoy. Let me know if you have any questions. I’ll put the links that I mentioned below so that you don’t have to go hunting for them. Continue reading


What We REALLY Want for Mother’s Day

What We REALLY Want for Mother’s Day

Okay, I know that Mother’s Day is a while off…but I like to be prepared. And honestly, you need to prep for Mother’s Day in advance…if you wait till the last minute, she’ll know it (I’M TALKING TO YOU, HUSBAND). Know who else will know it? Mass retailers that feed on last minute husbands, that’s who. You and every other man in the county will be fighting over the last Hallmark card, so take my advice and get this done now and keep your limbs.

Now, let’s get something out of the way right now before I get bashed by a bunch of angry women – I don’t think women need gifts on Mother’s Day. I know, big shocker. Mass marketing would have you believe we all want a big diamond, a gold necklace, or 2 dozen roses marked up about 500%. I do not fall in that list, and I would have to say that from getting to know a lot of you, you are probably in the same camp as me.Continue reading